Time Wasters in the Escort World: The Men Who Will Never Book

Every escort has encountered them—men who flood your inbox, ask a million questions, and act like they’re about to book… but never actually do. They’re the time wasters of the industry, the ones who treat an escort’s time like an unlimited free trial rather than a valuable, professional service.

Who Are These Time Wasters?

Think of that guy who spends an hour at a car dealership asking about every single feature of a car he will never buy. He test-drives it, grills the salesman about financing options, then suddenly "needs to think about it" before disappearing forever. That same mentality applies to these men in the escort world—they want to talk, ask endless questions, and even fantasize about booking, but when it comes time to actually commit? Silence.

The Classic Types of Time Wasters:

🛑 The Interviewer – He wants to know your entire life story, your favorite color, your shoe size, your zodiac sign… and still won’t book. He acts like he’s vetting you when really, you should be screening him.

🛑 The Cheap Negotiator – He messages with “Hey” and immediately follows with "What’s your best price?" as if this is a flea market. Then, after being shut down, he’s magically “not available right now.”

🛑 The Ghoster – Asks EVERY question under the sun—rates, services, availability—then vanishes like a bad Tinder date.

🛑 The Pretend Big Spender – Talks a big game about how he “only books the best” and “money isn’t an issue,” but when it’s time to send a deposit? Poof.

🛑 The “I Just Need to Be Sure” Guy – Needs five different forms of verification, a FaceTime call, and a signed letter of authenticity just to “feel comfortable” booking. (Spoiler: He was never going to book.)

The Final Boss of Time Wasters: The Guy Who Shows Up, Walks In, and Leaves

There are time wasters, and then there are next-level time wasters—the ones who go so far as to show up for a booking, walk inside… and then leave.

Why do they do it? Some are nervous and back out at the last second. Others get off on the thrill of the almost. Some just want to see if you’re real, like some twisted little game. And then there are the ones who were never going to book at all—they just wanted to waste your time in the most extreme way possible.

Regardless of their reasons, one thing is clear: they’re disrespectful, they’re unserious, and they deserve to be blocked on sight.

Signs You’re Dealing With One of These Time-Wasting Jokers

🚩 Overly Paranoid About "Feeling Safe" – Real clients want discretion, but if someone is obsessively questioning every detail, it might be an excuse to justify bailing at the last minute.

🚩 Won't Commit to a Deposit – If a man refuses to put anything down, he has nothing to lose by wasting your time.

🚩 Keeps Saying “I Just Want to See How I Feel When I Get There” – Translation: He’s already thinking about walking out before he even arrives.

🚩 Nervous or Fidgety When He Walks In – If he seems jittery or unsure, he may have no real intention of staying.

How to Handle These Clowns

💰 Require a Deposit. No Deposit = No Booking. If he leaves, at least you didn’t lose both time and money.

🚪 If He Leaves, He’s Blocked. Period. No second chances, no excuses.

🧠 Don’t Take It Personally. Some men are just weird. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with their own internal nonsense.

🚨 Use a Booking & Screening Form – If they can’t follow a simple process, they aren’t serious.

🚨 Require Deposits – If they refuse, they were never serious in the first place.

🚨 Keep It Short & Direct – “Here’s my website. Here’s my booking process.” Stop engaging in endless conversation.

🚨 Recognize Red Flags & Cut Them Off – If he’s messaging like a job interviewer, trying to bargain, or just wasting your time, block and move on.

Time Is Money—Don’t Let Them Waste Yours

Serious clients book without the runaround. Time wasters just love the chase without ever sealing the deal. Stop entertaining men who will never book, protect your energy, and focus on the ones who respect your time (and your rates). 🚫💰